Monday, May 29, 2017

Mother's Day

I had a wonderful mother's day. I'm pretty lucky to have four beautiful souls call me mom. This year I have felt more than ever, that my time with my children is short. It feels like they are growing so fast and my influence is such a short time. And even with this grasp on time, I forget my importance in the mundane. My weaknesses don't go away, but I recognize them more and hopefully improve. 

I'm amazed by Troy's grasp on other's emotions and ability to communicate with others. He makes sure not to push other's boundaries and wants fairness. When he talks about getting a toy, he talks about what Liam and Katelyn will get too. When he goes to the store with Dad, he worries that I will be alone and won't have anyone to "play" with. Troy has such a good heart. 

Liam is our independent man. If we are not able to help, he will get it done himself. It's quite helpful with Miles. Liam has helped me see when I am intervening too much. I can let them do more than I realize. That's a goal I have this summer. To grow their independence. Liam also helps me know how loved I am. He is quick to remind me how much he needs my love and is quick to forgive my shortness with him. Because I raise my voice with him the most. 

Katelyn is a sweet and sassy 4 year old. She is trying hard ever day to be more sweet than sassy. I can see her understanding more when I explain things. She is far ahead in her communication skills and I'm grateful for the ability to reason with her, unless we have hit the 4 year old "point of no return." But I see so much potential in this strong little girl. She has so much confidence and the ability to soften hearts. 

Miles brings me more smiles than I thought possible. He loves to smile at anyone and everyone. When he gets excited he buries his head into your chest. Miles has a peaceful and easy going temperament. Miles brings happy distraction. The older kids get on each other's nerves, but they can't be annoyed when Miles is the focus of attention. We needed our Miles. 

I'm one lucky mama!


The day before mother's day, the ward had father's and sons. Ben hasn't been able to stop talking about boating ever since. 


Alex, our neighbor, found out that Miles was sleeping and said she wanted me to have a break. So, she invited Katelyn over to make rice krispy treats. Then she made a card and brought me some of the treats and said they were from Katelyn for mother's day. Talk about a great neighbor!


Ben made breakfast while I slept. Pancakes, sausage, and chocolate banana smoothies. YUM.



 The kids made a fort/game for me while Dad made breakfast. 


You roll special dice (from a game we have) and you have to do special things depending on what is rolled. Move around the chairs, or find an egg in the room. It was so cute. 


Troy and Liam had "Donuts with Divas" for mother's day at their school. I love claiming them.


 All of my gifts from the kids. I LOVE these gifts. Ben also took me shopping and to dinner the night before. I got some (desperately needed) capris and shirts. 





 Troy made cards for both Grandma's after we talked to them on the phone. I love watching his giving heart create. 


I'm incredibly grateful for my own mother and mother-in-law. I seriously scored the jackpot with these two faithful, Christ-like, joyful women. I will never lack love or support from these "certain" women.

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